I would say that if you are not safe, for yourself or for those who rely upon you, or if there's good indications that you may become unstable at any time, then you may wish to choose inpatient.

Hospitalization, as you may know, is really only for stablization. During inpatient you are stablized on medication, and an after exit treatment plan is made which includes scheduled appointment(s) with a therapist, monitoring of medication(s) and family roles in your treatment (often.)

If you are feeling unsafe (((devox))) please go to the ER. Nothing is worth losing your life over.