I'm new here but I just wanted to add my two cents. The first song that comes to mind is "Black Eyed" by Placebo. I think they actually say "Borderline" in the song. Others that I have identified with in the past:
Hurt - NIN
Razor - Foo Fighters
Grey Street - DMB
Sentimental - Porcupine Tree
Changes - 3 Doors Down
Unwell - Matchbox 20
Send the Pain Below - Chevelle
Coma White - Marilyn Manson

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