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Old Jul 05, 2013, 10:23 PM
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Originally Posted by rise__above View Post
Thank you for your advice. I don't think I will follow the 'pointing out attractive people to my partner' tip, though.

Immature
as it is, I hate not being able to rank myself against other people. I desperately want to be the best at something, especially being most attractive. Although I'm completely aware that this is unhealthy.
no, no, no, I was NOT saying that it was unhealthy. Or immature.

Unhealthy and immature are value judgments, as if I were telling you what to do.

I was saying that it is objectively impossible, because both brown and blue eyes are beautiful, so you cannot compare them.

I am not saying that you are doing something wrong - I am saying that you are trying to do a thing that is impossible to do.