It can't be done immediately. You need to be aware of the shifting of the gears, taking time to look at things and "seeing" the possibilities. Realizing that things have to get better than they are now.
Or...
You can stay stuck where you are now... What can I say? It's YOUR choice to make.
<font color=blue>"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt" --Shakespeare</font color=blue>
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Psalm 119:105 Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.