Phillygirl, when I was in that position, I suddenly thought of myself as a new, empty house ready to be moved into. All the promise, the order and ability to furnish it how I might like? I swapped the "empty" feeling for a feeling of "potential" and that made me feel a lot better. Think of ways to figure out what you might want, not that you're not so sad all the time? School? Better job? Art/writing/music? It's a little bit like starting over.