What thread are you referring to from 2011? I just looked over my own threads, and I can't find anything from 2011 that mentions anything similar. I definitely don't think I ALWAYS end up in bad friendships/situations, nor do I always look to blame others. In this thread, I specifically asked how "I" can overcome "my" feeling of "it's not fair." I didn't blame my friend for my feelings; I said this was "my issue" and I asked for advice about how to change "my" thoughts/feelings.