Well. That is a big issue of mine. I don't have any self image really. I don't do much of anything just for me. I never have. Friends and my husband often comment that I don't really have any interests. I don't do anything just because. I will if it serves a purpose, like gets me to meet people, or will make other people proud. Everything I have done in my life is to meet some one else's expectations or to get attention. I honestly don't know how to be any different. What I am is what other people think.