Granite, I hope you know that you are entitled to your feelings no matter what your home circumstances are and you don't need to feel bad about feeling bad, know what I mean?

I'm having a tough day. It started out nice, with brunch with a good friend, but then I found out that another good friend's mother went into hospice today, with only a few days left. It brought me right back to the day my mom entered hospice 14 months ago. Sobbing ensued. Now I have a headache. And T is going to give me s*** about not calling him.