This is precious both in its wisdom and in its brevity. Cannot be said better.

Monica, the title of your threads (I agree with tinyrabbit in that there are many threads - maybe ask the moderators to consolidate them?) is very long and asks two questions.

" (1) I don't know what my boyfriend wants.. (2) Why are guys so complicated "

The beauty of tinyrabbit's response is that it answers BOTH of your questions.

You do not know what your boyfriend wants? Stop caring about it and get a better boyfriend.

You do not know why guys are so complicated? They are not all so complicated, and the best thing is to simply get a better boyfriend. Also, do not judge all men by your experience with your bf.

In other words, just get a better boyfriend.