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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster
That said, and being a devil's advocate, I would like to ask you if you did something (unintentionally perhaps) to cause it, because, as we know, it is really hard to live with so much pain, and you could have become embittered, easily angered, demanding, and unaffectionate yourself. Perhaps it was you who first stopped giving her comfort and physical affection? Because you say that she understood it when the meds caused the sexual problems, but why did you stop non-sexual physical contact? Could it be that you had your share of contribution to this problem? Did you withhold affection from her in the past?
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OK, you did not - I found your post on the R&S.
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Originally Posted by continuosly blue
I'm an emotionally available man and am compleatly opposite of a womans description of a man. My wife never learned how to show an emotional side except when we argue !
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OK, so then it seems that the problem is that the wife cannot show emotion, that this problem is not new, and that your sexual re-awakening only served to accentuate just how big of a problem that is.
So it is basically not a sexual issue at all.