Thank you so much for your response, I'm taking care of the boyfriend situation, and thanks to your advice with my parents help, I'm sending him back home... About everything else.. I'm trying to find a job, get some money together and distancing myself from my family, for now, at least I have a game plan, I found a therapist who works at a non-profit organization and will work with me to resolve my issues. All in all I am very grateful, I needed someone from the outside to give me an honest and unbies opinion, so that i can decide on the right way to go. Thanks again