I would have had some doubts over this until you mentioned what your husband said - it sounds deeply aggressive to suggest that someone would have to be lucky to escape his determination and strength over them. How involved were you with your daughter's life before she came to you if you don't mind me asking? I still believe despite all odds that this probably did happen, even if someone is deeply troubled it takes a lot to reward the help and support they're given with lies and potential damage to something they have no right to destroy. Do you think family therapy for you and both your daughter's might be of help? It's important your daughter gets as much professional support for this incident as well as the recent difficulties and if your other daughter comes along too she can also express her concerns for you both and work through them in a productive and caring environment. I hope you also continue to receive the help you need - now more than ever your meds and therapy (if you're receiving either) will play a big part in allowing you to come to terms with the loss of your relationship and the violation against your daughter. I hope you continue to love, care and be there for each other. Family is the most important thing right now. I wish all of you the very best.