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Originally Posted by I.Am.The.End.
Then I sent a text and he didn't respond and I was afraid to send a second one in case that was the wrong thing to do. He never talked to me again, so doesn't that mean he doesn't want to talk to me?
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I can see what you're saying re: the fear of rejection and based on that I'd probably hesitate to open myself up to rejection too.
I've been there myself a few times and it's a horrible experience. There was a guy at work who I used to talk to - once he talked to me for over an hour about all sorts of stuff (he initiated the conversation, not me) and he seemed OK. When he left, I sent a friendly email to see about staying in touch as friends - he replied briefly to the first and then when I sent a second, nothing.
Don't let it make you give up on people - there are lots of different people out there and sometimes we just need to wait until the right one comes along. That's what I try to tell myself anyway.