Hmmmmm, ok well I am going to have a little rant here so excuse me if anyone is sensitive to these issues please look no further.
So altogether I have seen three different ts, all three of them have said that I put myself into a victims role. I have since accepted that and am trying to catch myself before I say something to put me back there, but if something bad happens to you, aren't you a victim? I don't agree with ts telling me I am putting myself there by telling them what happened to me. It happened and I had no choice about it, now I have choices but I didn't then. I was a child.
Second thing is t suggested I read a book about codependency. I suppose I never identified with that term before but I can see now that it would relate to me.
I don't even know what my point is... Sorry, I just needed to vent
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