Thanks Tinyrabbit-and I agree it is a professional issue-I also put in my feelings because that is how my relationship with T is...It would not be genuine and something I would say if I were to email what you wrote-so I feel fine with what I wrote to him-like someone said before-we all have different responses. The email I sent is truthfully a step forward for me in expressing things-so T will recognize that-and while it is professional issue-I'm dealing with it the way I feel comfortable with. I told him the business parts and I added in my feelings-it fits with our relationship