maybe she doesn't realize how she comes accross?

Prior to being put on ADHD medication, I had no idea how I came accross. I realized after being medicated that the reason i had a hard time keeping friends was because all i did was talk about random things, or myself, or something unrelated to the topic that everyone else was talking about. I would go off on these tangents and only talk about what interested me (which usually was boring to other people).