Do you think there's anything at all that may be triggering these episodes? Something going on in the relationship, or within you? I know that when I was married, I used to pick fights when we were actually at our closest --terrified of intimacy, I would freak out.
Does the anger/irritability generalize to others in your life at these times, or just your husband? If you only react this way with your husband, I'd look into reasons within you regarding the relationship (perhaps subconscious) why this may be happening.
Since you do not have a uterus, I suppose you no longer menstruate, but I don't know if nonetheless there can be similar cycles of hormonal changes -you can ask your doctor. Do you find this happens at regular intervals -like for a few days a month?
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