It sounds like BP but look at your mood charts for the past 6 months and see if there's a pattern. In my family birth control makes our BP symptoms worse but you should talk to your pdoc about it.

Both myself and my husband get like that usually when hypomanic. We seriously have a 6 month rule on how long you have to wait before filing for divorce. Are you guys in marriage counselling at all? I ask because BP takes a toll on relationships.