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Old Jul 07, 2013, 09:45 PM
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Originally Posted by bowooden View Post
I'm trying so hard to keep in this marriage and I'm having the "me and my daughter would be happier without her" thoughts. I'm starting to notice other girls again and I know where that road leads for me because it took me there once before. My wife is so angry and mean and says that I don't understand her and shuts me out when she needs me most. She gets mad at me when she believes I get hit on or if another girl even talks to me. I know she may be depressed but how do I handle it and stay in this marriage. I stay away from all women now because they say things like "you deserve better" and I just don't like hearing it. I'm tired all the time and can't even keep a job anymore because I always quit. I get stressed and then fall asleep a lot when my wife is home and I don't know why. I'm too young to have these problems and I feel like the life is being sucked out of me.
Hi
Just an offered opinion here....1st thing is COMMITMENT, a word that if used properly takes away options of divorce. 2nd, How is it that other women are telling you that you deserve much better? It seems as if you have broke the golden rule, Never Ever discuss your martial issue with the opposite sex (excluding professionals). Dude, with the perverseness of the world today do you not think that you would be woo'd by the opposite sex with whats best for you?. My advice would be to go home and fall in love with your wife again........Good Luck!!
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