I've asked her stuff like "what was I like when we first met?" because I barely remember my behavior at my first session.

I don't particularly have any memories that I want her to remember in a specific way or anything that I thought was special. I remember her saying things or reacting to things in a certain way that I either liked or didn't like but no no "moments" that we shared. Maybe I am just far more concerned with her reaction to me than her memories of me.