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Old Jul 08, 2013, 07:02 AM
bowooden bowooden is offline
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Originally Posted by mistrust View Post
Hi
Just an offered opinion here....1st thing is COMMITMENT, a word that if used properly takes away options of divorce. 2nd, How is it that other women are telling you that you deserve much better? It seems as if you have broke the golden rule, Never Ever discuss your martial issue with the opposite sex (excluding professionals). Dude, with the perverseness of the world today do you not think that you would be woo'd by the opposite sex with whats best for you?. My advice would be to go home and fall in love with your wife again........Good Luck!!

I agree with you. It is not a positive thing to discuss my issues with the opposite sex and has only lead to more confusion for myself. I have distance myself from talking to women about my relationship due to past issues and that’s including my 4 sisters and my mom this time that’s why I'm here. Most of my male friends don't offer the best advice but they do try and I listen up to a certain point. When I got married I never thought divorce to be an option, it's just when you run out of all the options where do you go? How can you tell if someone loves you or they just love the thought of having a family and being in love? I'm not a materialistic person but I have not received a birthday gift a Christmas gift a father’s day gift ever. I have poured all my energy into making her happy that I've lost all my relationships with the outside world. I know some of this sounds stupid but if she is showing her love for me, how?
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Thanks for this!
Kate King