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Originally Posted by bowooden
Its cool! What I meant by that is that when things are going great in my relationship I don't see certain things or even when we're having troubles I still don't see other women. When our issues are at it's peak and life starts feeling like no escape then It's like an "ON" button is hit for me. I'm going to try and stay on her about some form of therapy if not for the both of us than just for herself. She was seeing a therapist at one point but I don't know what happened and she won't tell me. Thanks for the support I really do appreciate it. I'm so use to being the one everyone calls on for help and support.
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I have developed outlets and friendships as well as just carrying on when he seems to be absent or I feel pain from his reaction or lack or reaction to me. I know some other folks do this, and it's different from everyone. He usually seems a bit bettter when he takes a break, socializes with a friend, works on a project he enjoys, etc. I've also lowered my expectations to some degree, because too, I love him, and think that he is going thru stuff himself.