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Old Jul 08, 2013, 09:10 AM
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Originally Posted by Illegal Toilet View Post
I'm on OKC and some women there have loooooooooooong profiles and they seem too into themselves. I could barely be bothered writing a paragraph, and in the end I just wrote some sarcastic answers. I listed one of my hobbies as 'eating turtles' for example.

I also think I answered a few questions about liking smart women because all my matches seem a lot more intelligent than I am, going by the cleverness of their written introductions.
Well, if you like smart women, then why wouldn't you like a longer profile?

Now what constitutes being 'too into themselves'? Does that involve being self-assured enough to list information about themselves? Or do they really come across as self-absorbed and not interested in others? Is there a difference?

Maybe, that was my issue with these dating sites. I can write several paragraphs without batting an eyelash, yet, the responses lacked depth.
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