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Originally Posted by lynn P.
My condolences in the loss of your mother and sorry for all the confusing feelings you're going through. Its understandable you have these mixed /confusing feelings and agree you should speak to a counselor. Is your sister the stepfathers child? Are you in contact with her? My worry is the Stepdad might try abusing her. It must be hard feeling alienated because when a death happens, it helps to band together.
I couldn't attend my brothers service because my SIL had him cremated before we could see him. I was so upset and couldn't attend the service. Hugs to you  and you're welcome to share here. |
No, my sister and I have different dads and them my mom married our step dad. So, we're half siblings sharing a step dad. And yes, I'm afraid he will try something. She called me about 9 months ago asking if he had ever done anything to me. She failed to recognize it when it happened and I was so mad, I just ignored her calls until she gave up. She never told me why she wanted to know, obvs. So, I wonder.
But I talked to a friend who knows law. The courts will suggest my step dad or me. I have NO space or way to care for her. Yes, I talk to her but my family is so unlike me in everything. Interests, political beliefs, religious beliefs. Everything. It's hard to actually make a connection. My grandpa is in too frail of health to take care of her, too.