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Originally Posted by Gus1234U
{{{ Hugs }}} demon card... i grew up in a family that sounds a lot like yours, and i ran away. when my dad remarried, he did abuse my step-sister, she killed herself. PLEASE get help for your sister~! call Child Protective Services... do not let yourself regret doing nothing for the rest of your life~!
it is hard to feel left out and abandoned even in your grief, i know... my brother and my uncle went to see my mom in the hospital, and i didn't have transportation, they didn't even call me... but now you can process you relationship with your mom without her hurting you.
wishing you the best of a bad time, and all the support you need~!
Gus
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I'm very sorry you grew up like that too.
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Originally Posted by bebop
I am very sorry for your loss. I know how you feel though. When I lost my mom I was like 36 and still was being abused by her but mentally at that point. I had so many different emotions it was hard to know which to go with at the moment. Where is your sister's dad? Is he living? If not I would try to find a way to keep her with you instead of the step dad. He has no legal right to her.  |
My sister's dad is a drunk who never paid his child support. I honestly don't know where he is. No one does. I have no way to support her. I'm not mentally capable to support her. I just can't. As much as I want to. I can't. I don't even have space. I can barely afford to keep a roof over my own head. I am in no position to care for another human. And it kills me because I feel I'm failing her. But I also don't want her in the foster system because I know too many people who were in it. It's hell. I hope there isn't some big deal. I don't want to go to court. Will I have to? I am not even stable right now, tbh.
Thanks for your words, all.