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Originally Posted by BobKatt
i did not say anything to T. I feel that he should know me well enough by now (3 years) to know that I have a major problems a) feeling like I am part of a group and b) feeling comfortable talking and "taking up space".
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Definitely talk to your T about your thinking on this. He may have deliberately scheduled two folks to join on the same night so that each wouldn't feel he/she was the only new person. It can be hard to join a group of any sort when you are the only new one. Having someone else new join at the same time can lessen that. The two may even form a special bond since they are new together. If you tell your T how you feel about this, then maybe he can change it.
Good luck with your group.