Yeah i know what you mean. Last year i had a friend that was guy (dave) . I met him during high school several years ago. We were always close. Last year when things were really bad for both me and him we were always there for each other. Phone calls during school, phone call late at night. Whatever it took for us both to get through the day. Over the summer things just changed. He moved on with his life, and left me in the whole that he had made. Its taken me a while to get over. Even still.

I don't know if its just that i'm naive and don't expect ppl to hurt me or what. I have trouble trusting others as well. I've been hurt and abandoned by some many people in my lifetime. Including my own mother.

I think the only thing to do is try and have faith. I don't open up to anybody easily. My walls are all pretty high. IF they're a good person and a good friend to you , you'll know.

If they are not then you walk away. As simple as that. If that person is only hurting you or messing with you then they are not somebody you need in your life. You deserve so much more then that.

Take care
sammi