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Originally Posted by BobKatt
This was news to me. I thought "oh great now I will be overshadowed by someone else on my first day."
i did not say anything to T. I feel that he should know me well enough by now (3 years) to know that I have a major problems a) feeling like I am part of a group and b) feeling comfortable talking and "taking up space".
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It's not like a work group or other group you have been in, there's no "common" task or role/job you have that others do not or ways that others can overshadow you; the leader/T makes sure that doesn't happen, that's what they are there for. You only talk when you want but periodically, if you don't do "enough" talking you are prodded for your opinion, etc. The two problems you have are exactly what group is for, to help you with.