BP2 - I get really worried if someone stops contact with me, even if I've asked for it or know that I'm being an idiot and not responding to them. I might not want to really have much time with someone... but to know that they're thinking of me helps a lot. It's a weird balance... made worse by the fact that I recognize it'd be easiest for other people if I contacted them first during these periods. But I get really frustrated and angry if I feel like I'm the only person putting any effort in. So having someone else messaging me? Overall it's a positive, even if I get annoyed or something during my own.

haha. I dont' think any of that makes sense, butthat's how my brain works. Best way to know how things are for your guy, is to ask him about it when he's in a normal phase and not when he's in a down or an up.