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Originally Posted by Jannaku
There's a lot of people out there like what you are describing. I am a mature person and still have to deal with these sorts of people. I have so called friends that only socialize when there is nothing better in the diaries. I don't consider them to be friends at all, they are merely acquaintances and enjoyable company at that level and nothing more. Take them for what they are and don't worry too much. Good friends are hard to find and most people do not have more than a handful of them. I am confident that you will find some true friends. Congratulations on having the insight to see the situation for what it is. That is amazing and a gift that will serve you well in your life. All the best x
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Thank you, it totally agree, they are just mere acquaintances. In some ways I actually don't mind if they come and talk to me, as long as they are nice people and they don't treat me like crap whenever they see others that they like better. Like, a conversation a few minutes before class is fine, but if you are around others one minute and treat me poorly then the next you come to talk to me because you are alone, that is unacceptable. Thank you, yeah I see things for how they are, most people in life are acquaintances, and most people either don't realize that or don't want to accept that they really only have 2-3 true friends.