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Originally Posted by sinking
I hate kissing, always have.
anyone else? how do you deal with it?
can you LEARN to like it?
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What do you hate about it? I hated kissing when I was younger because no one knew how to do it right. They were either sloppy, mouth too open, stiff lips and wagging tongue, bad breath, teeth issues, etc. (I actually shuddered a little bit recounting the horrors..) To me, it matters WHO you kiss and WHY you are kissing them. Are you kissing them because you like them? Are you kissing to get something out of it?
The best kisser I've ever had (I suddenly feel like a high school girl all over again...kissing and telling...) put passion behind his kiss. I can feel had badly he wants/needs me. He's thinking in his head, "What can I do to please this person?" (I just asked him what's going on in his head..so that's how I know. I am not a betazoid.

Forgive the Star Trek reference. )
If it's just something you don't like, then you don't like it. Do something else you DO like instead. If you want to learn to like it, isolate what you hate about it, and avoid it ie: Only kiss when the mouth is clean, tell your partner not to have wet lips when he or she kisses you, etc.
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