(((BPA))) Whether you said it or not, it must feel awful to have him "not remember". I was devastated when I lost my 17 yr old dog last year. I emailed T, and he responded. Two days later at my appointment I told him I was still upset, and he asked me "about what?" That really hurt me, that he could forget such a major event so quickly. They hear 30-40 stories a week, they are human, they're going to forget a few.

Sorry it hurts so much.