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Originally Posted by Confusedinomicon
Maybe I am being harsh, but it doesn't make sense to stay in a committed relationship with someone who has children and not be there for the kid when they visit. You're speculating too much and not allowing yourself to live in the present. /IF/ the child decides to stay with the father, you can deal with it when it comes up. Don't worry about a problem that doesn't exist yet.
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I am trying to work through this I can stay in this relationship. If I can't, then I will leave it and find someone else without children. That's why I am going to therapy and talking it over with him.
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