MUE please dont think i am attacking or anything i am just putting out a different perspective on your feelings . i seems that maybe you have had issues about this T from the beginning .he does not seem to be your favorite person . in T absence and the fact that you had reservations about the ability of this T to run the group could it be that you were going to go in there with an adjenda to deal with this. that you had hopes to have another person to back you up .or even gang up on this T and not even give him a chance to run the group and instead spent the time dealing with the insecurities of the two of you . maybe others might have other stuff and the fact that this T is running it isnt an issue and may even like the new T . so with this comrade not going you are left alone to deal with it and afraid to bring it up on your own. i dont know the working of the group so i might be way off .intrested to hear if i am .just putting out something differnt to chew on.