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Originally Posted by sinking
though, i've never felt the desire to kiss anyone. the few time i've done it, it was because i thought i was supposed to/they were expecting it from me.
maybe i've never found the right person.... or maybe thats just who i am...
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It is hard to say whether you have not found the right person or whether this is who you just are (which also would not be the end of the world, btw), because your sample size is too small.
What can be answered, though, is the following question:
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Originally Posted by sinking
can you LEARN to like it?
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No. You do not like it because (at least in part) you have never felt the desire to kiss anyone. Desire is not willable. When you are asking whether one can learn to like it, you are, in essence, asking whether you can force yourself to desire it, and the answer is no, you cannot. Much as I cannot will myself into eating quinoa even though I know that it is a superfood - but I cannot overcome disgust and learn to like it.
If you relax, it might come to you - either a new desire to kiss someone you already know, or, in the future, a new person in your life.