I am ashamed but i have to admit that i have VERY little experience in kissing, and the guys i kissed, i didnt feel much physical attraction for them, so maybe thats why, but even so, there are a lot of things i dont like about the pure act of kissing:

i dont like to feel the simple touch between the lips. they are SOFT and WET and i dont like the feeling of it. i also dont like to feel the "void" inside the other mouth and i dont like tongues touching. they remind me of slimy SNAILS. also, i honestly dont know what to do with my tongue or even my lips. opening/closing my mouth all the time? turning around my tongue? for what? i cant find any pleasure in doing so. so i prefer quick kisses with closed mouths only to show affection but i dont like even that.

nobody ever explained me how it works and i have learned nothing with experience. feeling so dumb, ugh.

can anyone relate or suggest what makes a kiss enjoyable?
the pleasure you get, is it only a psychological thing or should it be physical too?