Thanks, granite. I don't think this is a motivation at the moment, but I appreciate you sharing.

I already addressed coT a couple of sessions ago about what I was feeling towards him and his reactions to the group. The last couple of sessions haven't been so bad - because he has basically been keeping quiet most of the time and letting the group lead itself. He also said that he was working on evolving to more of how we normally do things, and I found myself feeling empathetic towards him and accepting of the idea of the need for a learning curve. So, I have no pressing need to confront coT at the moment, probably because that work has already been done.