It just might be! Funny how I had to kinda work through the scenarios in my own mind to come to that possibility. My gut reaction tends to be that someone is trying to be spiteful - and it may very well be the case here, because both this member and coT seem to have ego/control clashes at the moment.

But it does make sense to me if this group member doesn't believe he can address it in a healthy way or that coT is in a place where he can respond in a healthy way, that it would be worthwhile to have T there to help facilitate that process.

Anyhoo....time for me to leave for group. Smaller group tonight - possibly only 4 or 5 people. That should be interesting....