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Originally Posted by RoseBee
I am going to experience it this time to face the fear. The leaving was a peace offering to see if I could compromise staying in the relationship, but not having to be around the kiddo if I start to lose my hair from anxiety or something. I am not sure if this is making any sense to anyone but me. I just had a second biopsy (second opinion) and am a little woozy. I am pretty sure I am just hitting the keyboard like a monkey hitting a whack a mole.
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It makes perfect sense.
Confusedinomicon looked at this issue interpreting it as an anxiety issue, which is
yet another perfectly valid and helpful way to interpret it (Confusedinomicon, thanks very much for the recipe, I will buy ginger root and cinnamon tonight because I have too much anxiety surrounding my upcoming trip to see my son; should I buy a few cinnamon sticks or a bottle with powder?), but her take on your issue does not negate your own take - that you came up with the leaving-as-a-compromise-and-as-an-olive-branch rather than leaving-as-a-way-to-flee-from-fear.
In reality, there could be both facets of motivation present, some known to you and some not known to you.