My FH and I have been together for almost a year, after he spent 6yrs waiting for me! Everything was really good but lately it feels like he just doesn't care any more.
We've been trying to organise our wedding, which is not easy 'cause I have no family or friends to help and we're paying for everything ourselves, with a very low income, but we were getting there. But the last month or so he's been really quiet and seems really distant.
Any mention of wedding and he just ignores me- he was talking to friends on Facebook last night and as I looked across I noticed he'd been talking to the celebrant so I asked him what it was about and was completely ignored. I was sitting right next to him and he pretended I didn't say a thing.
Unfortunately this isn't a one off kinda thing- I've mentioned a couple of other things about the wedding to him and he either gives some vague answer or completely ignores me altogether.
And it feels like it's not just wedding stuff either- he's stopped talking to me about his day when he gets home from work, he barely says a word to me over the weekend, and just won't talk to me.
I don't know what to do any more. I try to talk to him but he just doesn't seem to want to say anything to me at all. I feel like everything is falling apart.
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