(((((Jlove))))) I know how you feel. it's really hard to explain to the ones around us what is going on in our minds.
My husband doens't cook at all and we have got to the point when there are some days I can't bring myself to do anything, so he really needs to step up to the play.
I can't explain everything to him, it sounds to crazy, but I know my triggers.
So I'd sugest you sit down wiht him (he seems really sweet) and let him know exactly what you need from him and when you are going to need it.
That has help a lot in my marriage.
Hang in there hon, in the menatime I can make some rrom for you in my rollercoaster!