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Jul 09, 2013, 10:11 PM
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Member Since: Jun 2007
Location: Chicago, Illinois
Posts: 5,518
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I think you may be barking up the wrong tree with this one. A person's child should not be considered "extended" family, regardless of the distance between them.
If you are not at all interested in becoming this boy's "mother" (or stepmother), I wouldn't bother trying to develop a relationship with the child. If you are not at all interested in being "motherly" to all his children, past and future, I wouldn't bother testing out your nurturing skills on either one of them (bf or his son).
Good luck - who knows, maybe you and the kiddo will get along great 
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