Oh LeeAnn, I'm so sorry things aren't going well.
I wish I could tell you what works... but *sigh*-- I'm stuggling similarly with my teen son. I worry he won't be able to graduate.
It must be so hard for you as, like you said-- this also affects you -- not just him. I hope going back on Strattera will improve things... but if not... maybe like Tunia suggested-- maybe he's been misdiagnosed?? I don't know-- but I sure can relate to your frustration/worry and the feeling that things were going so great only to have them revert back to being not good at all
If you need to reach out, vent or yell-- I'm here!
I do hope with all the people helping your husband that he'll take that help and also think about how it's affecting you too. It's taken my husband years(well, we're still working on it) to realize that the things he does has an affect on the loved ones around him.
thinking of you--
mandy