I'll be the one to say it. Get off Lithium before you try to get pregnant. If you can't get off Lithium and find another way to stability, don't get pregnant. This a serious deal for you and your baby. Now and in the future. I have two kids and know what pregnancy and parenthood is while having bp. It's no game and needs to be taken seriously and with much consideration. It's difficult to have this diagnosis and work through pregnancy. Good luck.