Thanks so much for all of the support. I can't tell you how much it means to hear this. I have felt so bad about all of this. It breaks my heart. This is, by far, one of the toughest things I've had to do.
@CheshireCatGrin, I think you are correct in that he is just desperate for the money because even now, when I talk to him, he is hostile to me about this and still refuses to see that he needs help. His results come back in another week and he is already talking about what the plan is once the psychiatrist finds nothing wrong with him. That's how adamant he is that there is no problem, yet the licensed therapist, who counseled him every week for two months, said she knew within 30 minutes of talking to him that he needed help. And as far as not letting up until my son is willingly going to go to counseling... well, he has made so many promises that he never followed through on, hence is why we are here, a few weeks away from college tuition time, that we are having this "crisis" about it. He knew since the end of February, the beginning of March about my requirements. I think he plays mental games with me. Everything is a competition and he isn't about to lose.