It was about taking steps to keep moving forward in my life. I know this is really general, but I don't know if I should be more detailed.

It's the type that is hard to hear because you feel like they are probably right but you're super scared/not completely convinced you can make those changes.

I challenged the "tough love" by being honest. I guess I'm just a putz for not moving forward fast enough. T would disagree with that, but that's how it feels.