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Originally Posted by Jasmina
He had no problem showing his true self to her and being honest. Why hasn't he been honest with me? I'm in shock, confused and hurt. I don't know if their relationship is just sexual or something more. What is going on? Why would he act as if it was just him and me if we weren't? Then I question myself whether I should be upset or not. Since we never did say in words that we were exclusive. Help!
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He was honest with her and not with you because she and you had different expectations. She did not have expectations of exclusivity coming from him and you did.
The guy is being manipulative. This is why:
To the extent that he was not upfront with you because he did not want to hurt you and be hated by you (per his words sent to that gorgeous woman), he realized FULL WELL that exclusivity
was implied. Otherwise he would have been honest with you.