I think it's horrifying thinking about my partner being attracted to other people. Everyone tells me that it's human, and that it doesn't mean they love me less...but it hurts me. I want to be the only one.

I have even suppressed my desire for others so that I can say: Why are you attracted to people besides me? I'm not attracted to anyone but you!

I feel like I'm threatened if I'm not the only one my partner finds attractive.