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Originally Posted by krackadoom
How does one come to not hate who they are?
Not on the outside, but on the inside.
I have come to realize a lot of bad things about myself tonight. With everything negative I uncover, it is like the positive things dwindle and I don't know how to forgive myself for the person that I have been. Nor do I know how to control myself from not being that person anymore.
The guilt and the shame of that I have done without realizing my emotional state is overwhelming.

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Hi, I know it can be hard but try to focus on the positive. Set small goals that you can accomplish. Forgiveness takes time keep telling yourself that your past does not define who you are and allow yourself to feel those difficult emotions as you say I forgive myself for what I have done but that is not going to define who I become. Learn from your past and seek positive messages about yourself. May I ask about your faith beliefs?