Well, depending on how long until you get the new T, you might consider not going at all. If it's not helping you, why go? I know sometimes it's not about hearing what you want to hear, but there are extremes. If you really feel like she doesn't understand you, why bother seeing her anymore? Sometimes you have to shop around to find someone that works well with you. Don't give up on finding the T that's right for you - but maybe give up on sticking it out with the one that's not working. No need to hold the hand that holds you down and all that junk. If nothing else, you must have a large amount of patience to put up with that. And patience is a good thing, sometimes.
If you feel compelled to stick with her until the new T is ready, maybe spend the time talking about why you don't think you're a good fit and what's not working - if nothing else, it might help you identify qualities you'd like in your next T. Figuring out what does and doesn't work for you. Good luck. Hope you get your new T quickly.
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Jon
"A mind too active is no mind at all."
-Theodore Roethke
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